My husband is good at everything. That's why one of my struggles before is to find my place in our relationship. For quite some time, I've felt useless, in Tagalog, 'walang silbi' kasi kaya namang gawin ng asawa ko lahat. I've shared in a previous post that I admired my husband so much that I lost my self-confidence. I made the mistake of comparing myself to him and I'd get frustrated at the realization that he's the better version of me. By the grace of God, I found the courage to finally tell my husband about my insecurities. And all the more I admired him for reminding me of my own strengths and helping me believe in myself again. Our relationship has gotten better ever since. We've been married for 1.5 years now and I know we still have a long way to go, but I'm super proud of what we have become as individuals and as a couple. We're far from perfect but we're everything I've dreamed of and more (anak na lang talaga kulang, Lord! I know our miracle is coming soon! ❤️🙏).
So ang haba ng introduction ko. Haha. Actually, napa-look back lang talaga ako because of what happened this afternoon. My husband bought an electric razor which is supposedly a gift for Bailey and Pudsey (the cute doggies in QC). He wanted to see if it's working and so he tried it on himself. Of course he couldn't reach the back of his head so he asked for my help. At first I was hesitant because I was afraid of hurting him or cutting his hair too short. But he encouraged me and told me that I could do it, that the razor has a 'guard' which would prevent the blades from touching his skin, that it's safe and he won't get hurt. He even demoed how to use it. So I ended up cutting his hair. Thank God it's not bad. Haha. After that, he asked if I wanted a haircut too. I said yes para makaganti siya. 😂 In the end, we both looked good, felt fresh, and had so much fun. ❤️
I guess ang point ko lang is, 1 Thessalonians 5:11. "Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up." ❤️ Don't be afraid to try new things together. Trust and believe in each other. And have fun! Enjoy each other's company. Laugh at each other's mistakes, and make sure you learn from them. Together. 🙂
I super appreciate my husband for trusting me with his hair and letting me do more stuff now (and also appreciating and eating whatever I cook, even if it has a lot of vegetables 😁). It really helped that I opened up to him let him know my need to feel needed. 😊 So yeah, communication is key. And yeah, you need to be each other's best friend. 🥰
I saw the recent video of Nas about coronavirus and relationships. I'm glad this lockdown has made us stronger and better. ❤️
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